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I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl and have been with her for a year now. During this time, the relationship was absolutely fantastic and loved every minute we spent together. But up until a week ago, my girlfriend just decided not to talk to me. She ignores my texts and calls. When she does answer her phone (after making several calls to her), she accuses me of annoying her and just hangs up. This is so out of character as when we used to speak to each other, we would talk about everything and anything without any problems.

I really just dont understand this change in her. I know there is a problem with her, but its driving me so mad that she doesnt talk to me like she used to. My family and friends tell me to leave her, even though I dont want to do this. I have had a couple of bad relationships in the past, so I can understand what they are saying. I want to talk to her and find out what is going on with her, but how can I do this when she wont talk to me?

What should I do. Should I just give her one more chance and leave her to deal with her issues, or shall I end the relationship?
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