I'm really depressed with my life at the moment. The main reason for this is because my family want me to marry my cousin because he is wealthy, belongs to a good family and is sober. However I don't like him, he's not the person for me, and I had an image in my mind of the person who I wanted to end up with.
My parents say that if I want a man with good looks, then I'll have to sacrifice other qualities e.g good family.
It's come to the point where the this topic is discussed in my house daily, the idea of marrying my cousin freaks me out, and I'm scared that if I say yes, then two lives (mine and his) will be ruined.
I cry daily about this because my uncle really pushing for the marriage to happen. I'm only 18, can someone please tell me what to do?
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