Who cares?

Who cares?

Hi,

I'm a 27 year old female and have been with my 38 year old boyfriend for the past six months and only just found out that he has a wife and kids.

I'm really confused about what to do because my parents divorced and I know the effect it can have on a family, but I'm in love and I don't think he really loves his wife anyway. We have such a good time together that I want to fight for him and not let him go, although he has a wife I don't want to lose him.

My friends tell me I'm being used but I don't think so. Things can't be going that well for him and his wife if he wants to see me, I think he genuinely has feelings for me too but I don't know whether he has enough feelings for me to leave his wife and kids, but then again I don't want to destroy a family.

Am I being used? What should I do? Please help my heart is being torn in two.